Due to my growth & multiple changes in my worldview over the years, this post is considered “archived” and is offered here for historical purposes only. Opinions offered above may not necessarily reflect my current beliefs, though you're still more than welcome to participate in the comments, discussing anything from the post. Thank you for understanding.
Being able to trace every problem, every wrong turn in your life over the past year or so back to one very concrete choice for which you’re entirely at fault and for which there is no apparent “fix”?
I know that feel, bro.
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there can be a fix. it’s not too late i love you with all my heart. We can get through this and anything.
Someday you will realize that you are not entirely at fault for that relationship ending. Someday you will realize that there were many problems why it wasn’t already working and why in the future it wouldn’t work out. Someday you will accept that you did someone wrong but that doesn’t make you a horrible person. That a decision you made isn’t the only reason it failed. Stop blaming yourself, it take’s two people to have a relationship and both of them to make it work-and want it to work.
No one’s perfect!