Be Fruit­ful and Multiply

by Rick Beckman on January 4, 02009

A long time ago, in a blog far, far away — in other words, lost in one of my old blogs’ archives — I’ve writ­ten a vari­ety of things regard­ing the early chap­ters of the Book of Gen­e­sis. I plan to even­tu­ally migrate that con­tent over to KingdomGeek:Disciple, but until then, I want to keep those types of posts com­ing as I think of them because I can’t help but find the Book of Gen­e­sis — espe­cially chap­ters one through eleven — captivating.

Let’s start out with Gen­e­sis 4.

Now Adam knew Eve his wife, and she con­ceived and bore Cain, say­ing, “I have got­ten a man with the help of the Lord.” The Book of Gen­e­sis, 4:1

Adam & Eve are famous for their dis­obe­di­ence. Their names are vir­tu­ally syn­ony­mous with the for­bid­den fruit, with orig­i­nal sin. That’s under­stand­able enough — what tran­spired in the gar­den of Eden fun­da­men­tally changed humanity.

But what we have here in the first verse of the fourth chap­ter of the first book of the Bible is obe­di­ence, obe­di­ence to the com­mand issued in Gen­e­sis 1:28 to “Be fruit­ful and multiply.”

To this com­mand, there has never been a retrac­tion issued by the Lord. “Be fruit­ful and mul­ti­ply.” It was the com­mand given to Adam & Eve — to human­ity as a whole with our first par­ents as our rep­re­sen­ta­tives. The com­mand was reit­er­ated to Noah & his fam­ily (Gen­e­sis 8:17), with them again being rep­re­sen­ta­tive of human­ity. And again, there is no retrac­tion of the command.

Be fruit­ful. Mul­ti­ply. Fill the earth.

That’s inter­est­ing, isn’t it? Just think of some of those early fam­i­lies. These were typ­i­cally not fam­i­lies of one or two; fam­i­lies grew to be quite large. It was seen as a sign of God’s bless­ing. “I have got­ten a man with the help of the Lord,” Eve declared. Chil­dren then were seen for what they truly are: lit­tle bun­dles of joy from Heaven… or, more prop­erly, they were a her­itage of the Lord.

If Chris­tian­ity entails hav­ing the mind of Christ — con­form­ing our world­view to that of the Lord’s as described in the Scrip­tures — then doesn’t it make sense that we as Chris­tians view fam­i­lies as God does?

The world says that fam­i­lies should be planned and that any method — con­doms, morn­ing after pills, even abor­tion — be used to stick to the plan. Con­trari­wise, God says, “Behold, chil­dren are a her­itage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward” (Psalm 127:3).

The world says that small fam­i­lies are best, that two is all you need, but God says, “Like arrows in the hand of a war­rior are the chil­dren of one’s youth. 5Blessed is the man who fills his quiver with them!” (Psalm 127:4 – 5).

The world says that we can slaugh­ter our unborn, self­ishly send­ing souls into eter­nity to suit our own damned agen­das. Yet God unequiv­o­cally declares, “I call heaven and earth to wit­ness against you today, that I have set before you life and death, bless­ing and curse. There­fore choose life, that you and your off­spring may live, 20lov­ing the Lord your God, obey­ing his voice and hold­ing fast to him, for he is your life and length of days” (Deuteron­omy 30:19 – 20).

But today, how many big fam­i­lies do you know? Off hand, the biggest fam­ily I think I know per­son­ally is the pre­vi­ous gen­er­a­tion in my own, my dad hav­ing four sib­lings. While I don’t know her well, I’ve had some con­tact with Amy Scott, mother of six — I also read her blog; per­haps you should to!

How many “Israels” do you know today, though? Reuben, Simeon, Levi, Dan, Gad, Ben­jamin, Joseph, Issachar, Asher, Judah, Naph­tali, and Zebu­lun. Those were his kids… well, the boys anyway.

I hope & pray that God blesses me with mul­ti­ple chil­dren. They are bless­ings to me from God for God, and know­ing that, I can­not fathom how fam­i­lies — espe­cially Chris­t­ian fam­i­lies who should know these things — would want to some­how pre­vent such blessings.

More often than not it seems a mat­ter of con­ve­nience, as men­tioned before, and finances, but what would amaze some is just how lit­tle we actu­ally need to sur­vive and how much we could actu­ally afford if we had our pri­or­i­ties in order.

We are liv­ing in a world wherein peo­ple, unlike Adam & Eve, refuse to obey God’s com­mand. Every con­ceiv­able method of avoid­ing obe­di­ence is used, includ­ing the whole­sale slaugh­ter of the unborn… and every con­ceiv­able excuse is used to jus­tify not even try­ing to obey, the most com­mon excuses being dri­ven by our culture’s love affair with Mam­mon (1 Tim­o­thy 6:10).

I’m not say­ing birth con­trol is a sin — unless, of course, it causes an abor­tion — but what I def­i­nitely am say­ing is that by doing down that route, you’re miss­ing out on real life, tan­gi­ble gifts from God and, per­haps more impor­tantly and to the point, the oppor­tu­nity to obey Him by being fruitful.

I encour­age you, brethren, to take God’s com­mands, His wis­dom to heart, trust­ing that He knows bet­ter than any of us how fam­i­lies ought to be “planned.”

As the hymn says, “Trust and obey for there’s no bet­ter way”!

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{ 9 comments… read them below or add one }

Nathan W. Bingham January 4, 2009 at 21:22

It is certainly the desire of my heart, and my wife’s heart, to have a large family. It is unfortunate that many don’t conform their thinking to the Word of God. Children are a blessing, not a curse. There are always exceptions, and people need wisdom, however we must never view children other than how the Scriptures call us to.

Rick Beckman January 4, 2009 at 21:35

Thanks for being the first commenter, Nathan; appreciate it! And you’re right, people do need wisdom, ourselves included. There’s rampant foolishness in the world — even throughout the churches — but if we are to honor God, we must grow in wisdom, living a principled life based in His Word.

It’s a rarity these days, to be sure, but I doubt there has been any period of history where that wasn’t true.

Even so, come, Lord Jesus.

Jon @ DadTrek January 4, 2009 at 21:49

I agree that children are a blessing from God. I also feel that if a married couple is walking the path set before them by the Lord, then they’ll have the right amount of children at the correct time. I don’t necessarily agree that “be fruitful and multiply” has to mean a large family. However if the Holy Spirit is nudging a couple to have another kid, they shouldn’t disobey that calling based on worldly excuses.

This also reminds me of those couples that are unable to conceive. Some of them just need a miracle so they can conceive anyway. Some of them can turn it into an opportunity to adopt a child who otherwise would grow up an orphan (oops, the politically correct term for orphan in the USA is “foster child” so my bad).

Thanks for the thought provoking post. God bless!

Rick Beckman January 4, 2009 at 21:58

Hey, Jon, thanks for the comment. You’re right, it doesn’t have to mean a large family, and I hope I didn’t really imply that. There are plenty of small families in the Scriptures; the important thing is that they obey God and at least desire to procreate. He’ll give the gift and reward of children as He sees fit.

It is sad that some people are unable to conceive, but more than once in the Scriptures did barren women receive the blessing of children! Some, as in the case of the Egyptian woman who found Moses, were willing to raise children not their own.

God may use a variety of ways to bless your family with children — His ways are certainly not our ways, after all — so whether through procreation, adoption, and perhaps even mentoring or “Big Brother/Big Sister” type things, you can be a blessing to children in this world, introducing them to the truths of their Creator, teaching them biblical values, and showing them true love as a parent.

Loving the extra perspectives!

Isaiah January 5, 2009 at 00:39

I think it’s good to have children, but if there’s no blessing then I guess that’s that.

Case in point: having been married 11 years, we’ve tried a few times to conceive but without success. It doesn’t really bother or disappoint us since we just take it that God deems that we are not to have children for some purpose, but it still gets to the flesh a little, y’know? Like when I see how seemingly easy it is for some to conceive or those with children enjoying family time, I get a little envious. ;-)

Both of us are getting on in years and it’ll now be dangerous to conceive. We might look at adoption later on, but for now it’s status quo and we spend our time, money and energies on other worthy issues.

On the worldview, it has always been an irksome thing to me that with the all-out rush to go green nowadays, even human lives can be sacrificed to save “mother earth”. Scientists tell us of our carbon footprints and some even go as far as to put a guilt trip on folks who buy into the farce that bringing another human being into the world will add to the demise of Gaia. It has even gone to the absurd level of seeing oneself as a “murderer of Gaia“!

All in all, it’s another form of rebellion against God’s commandments if we look at it from the Biblical perspective.

My blessings and congratulations to those who have children!

Isaiah January 5, 2009 at 00:41

BTW, what a ‘coincidence’ that you are working through Genesis, I am too, but just haven’t found the time to pen my thoughts on some things I’ve learned so far, besides the one I did on Creation. :-( I do look forward to reading more of your perspectives on the same chapters!

Soli deo Gloria!

Rick Beckman January 7, 2009 at 18:30

Hmm, coincidence or providence? :)

I agree with what you say regarding modern man’s love affair with Mother Earth; although, I guess such paganism has existence just about as long as man has. As much as I disagree with that mentality, it’s ironic that my favorite game is Final Fantasy VII and one of my favorite songs is “Blackened” by Metallica… both of which speak of the death of the planet by man’s hand. I guess it makes for good fiction. :)

Don’t know if you saw it or not, but my second Genesis post is up.

Alicia January 8, 2009 at 08:31

Well, I have names picked out for the first 10 boys and the first 10 girls…after that I may need to hit the books again ;)

Jane September 3, 2009 at 16:20

Some people would like to have more than 1 or 2 children, but can’t handle that many children. I think you should have children, but you should have the mother can handle. Some people like the Duggers can handle 19 children, others can only handle 2. It doesn’t mean that people don’t want children. I agree that children are a blessing, but you should have what you can handle, particularly the mother who is home with the child all day!

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